If he notices how uncomfortable you seem when you guys act out his fetish but then proceeds anyway without any thought to your state then he is an ass. BB code is On. I love my husband dearly to this day, even if we do have some sexual compatibility issues. I'd try talking honestly about it and looking for a significant compromise before counseling if I were OP. Tell him that it has gotten too much for her and ask for a compromise. A trained sex therapist—a licensed mental health professional who understands and treats sexual problems of all kinds—can be helpful in sorting things out. I feel so very alone.
Shocking discovery about my husband’s cheating and fetishes - Truth About Deception
Welcome to Reddit, the front page of the internet. The only enjoyment i get out of this is watching him enjoy and telling me it was the best ever. I'm talking about putting up for it after you decided you hated it. Perhaps it has to do with how we are wired, with our brains reacting to different pleasure centers on our bodies. If they do in no way am I judging Im just looking for some help with understanding, I've tried talking to my H about it and all he says is it is owning me.
My Husbands Drinking is ruining our marriage. This pertains to the discomfort thing - he likes it when I tell him stories even more because I dislike doing it I did the asshole abusive guy thing who for real liked to degrade me. These folks don't really seem to get fetishes and that everybody doesn't always align perfectly.
If this were a shared kink, or one that didn't diminish the experience for OP, would that really be a problem? You are clearly out of whack, and need to kind of align. It may be difficult for people who do not have a fetish to understand, but for the person with a fetish, the drive to engage in such behavior is very rewarding. Wow what a damn tough position to be in. I was referring in part to circumcision performed on older males. And this sounds like a scary one to get out of control. Most cultures consider the phallus a symbol of power.